Oh what a bummer. I didn't know Betsey didn't post in SSM. I read this thread and had a big revelation and was contemplating posting it on my thread but I wanted her to see it. (I am the wife of a SSM and post my piecing story there..)

Well, Betsey, just know that you are helping tons of people by posting your own journey..you have kick started many thoughts for me and that has helped the fog clear considerably.

Cheers!
Honey