No one should be expected, nor asked, to put their sex life on line here. This is not what the BB is all about.
If you have questions like this, there is a forum on the board here called, The Sex Starved Marriage. That forum may be the closest to get info. Otherwise, I suggest buying a few books that may help you get ideas of how to satisfy yourself.
Oh, and Betsey rarely posts in SSM, so you won't get the answers from her there either.
Triple J
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