Assuming the WA feels as described here (or in my case not assuming, since mine has confirmed most of this at one point or another), why might they act much the same way after making "a decision" as all the time they were "on the fence"? And if they've made this decision to have you out of their life, what is this bit about hoping you can be their friend while they begin their new life with OW (who they never, ever mention in your presence)? Are they serious with this stuff?
Pam, would really love for you to elaborate on not being the safety net. How so? And is offering friendship a safety net of sorts?
