Pen,

Thank you for the CS Lewis reference. I would also recommend A Grief Observed which I quoted a bit on my thread. It is the only book of his I have read (so far) but have the others you recommended on my night stand and FINALLY some time to read them!!

Also, thank you for your honesty. You are at once difficult and wonderful to read... difficult in that your reality is my horror since my H continues to live with OW, but, you have been very helpful to me in your posts about what the WA must feel.

Thank you.


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.