Betsey - the suspense is killing me - what car did you buy????
Seriously, what a great conversation! I doubt many "happily married" people ever have interactions on the level the two of you seem to be having regularly now. Considerate, validating, really listening to what the other is saying, and explaining emotions and fears in a positive and non-accusatory way. This is just awesome, and if you are able to do this now, just imagine to what lofty hights your marriage can climb.
