Hi Pen, I would like some insight into your thinking when you first WA. My link is below, but I will give you a quick synopsis.
W left after 10 years together. Left for married OM and he has now dumped her ( 1 month ago). She will not talk or email me. She avoids me I think because of guilt, shame or maybe she blames me for ruining her 1 chance of happiness with OM. ( I had nothing to do with it)
I know she is still in love (infatuated) with OM. She knows how much I was hurt from my first D because she left for married OM also. I don't think my W ever thought she would do this. We had discussions thru the years about that.
My wife still sees OM every day because he is her boss. She has not seen me since April 12. We have been dark for 2 months.
My question is do you think she may be thinking about me or us now that OM is gone.Also any other thoughts you had at that time would be helpful.
