It's been a really long time since I've felt any discussion compelling enough to keep me from my work... but today is one of them!
HOn, I'm not sure what to do about it yet. I'll figure that out as I process some more.
I'm very grateful for all the input here. It's been most helpful today.
Wonder--Pam likes hugs! I send them her way all the time. And I'm sending one to everyone here today. Sounds like we all need one--this processing is hard stuff and emotionally charged.
Pen, can you prescribe something for all of us today? Drugs are our friends...
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
