p.s. to Pam... I know you are not one for hugs, but I'm going to give you one anyway-- ((((((((((PAM))))))))))
Why? Because you keep mentioning that you never meant to hurt anyone, that you had tunnel vision. You were hurting--and that is how you got there. Forgiving yourself for that is not easy, but I am sensing you're getting there. And that maybe the presence of that line in your posts is helping you get there?
Just a thought I wanted to share. No offense at all intended by this. Your posts are amazing me.
