The consensus on this bb is to let go, move on, etc. But, does that make the WAS think that we don't care? Does it slow them down? Like you said, you had that safety net.
Nothing seems to move my H one way or the other.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.