thank you both Betsey and KK

First, thanks for the synopsis on the book, i'll check around to see if i can check it out of the library first.

Second, i really like what you have said and agree with it entirely. both you and KK. seems a lot like what Pam posted earlier, which i also appreciated.

i like this communal thread thing, it is a nice forum to share some thoughts. i'm glad we're all adult enough to tackle the tough subjects without getting too sensitive.