*peaks out from behind a rock in the fishbowl for a minute to say hi*

Pam, wonderful you're back, great post, and I wish I could say more, but I can't - if you saw the weeds that have conspired to run off with my driveway you'd understand. More later.

Betsey, what is it again exactly what you did? Talked to a guy longer and more intensely than you should have, because you were unhappy with yourself and your marriage? Geez girl, get to the back of the line. I mean way, way, WAY back. Right there seems about right, next to Mother Theresa. I mean, some of us here (like me) have actually done something wrong!!!

No, I'm not making light of your feelings - just trying to make you laugh. But forgiveness starts with forgiving yourself, and once you've really, really done that, you'll have no prob with forgiving OM for first being a jerk, and now being happy.

Of course, if Mr W got off his b-u-t-t it would probably help ..... *smile*

Pen, silly with sun but serious underneath