I made my H leave!!! I told him to go or I would call the cops. Got on the phone and started dialing. Luckily he left b4 they got there but a friend was forced to have her husband forcably removed. there may be repurcussions though, legally, dont know for sure. Only tried this once, and didnt have to press any charges, but I was mad enough to come up with some if I had had too. We had been fighting and I was prepared to tell the police I feared for my safety, I did! He was crasy that night! The last time he refused to leave, I am glad he didnt, I let him stay at 1st because i was worried for him and after that things got better.
Only YOU know how far you are willing to take it! Maybe social services can offer some advice?