Tom,
I'm sorry you had such a lousy day. That is just POOR behavior on her part. How old are your kids? Are they at an age to do things for you, on their own?

That just sucks!

I didn't do a lot for my H on FD, per his request. (we have lots going on in different directions right now, financially and he didn't want the $$ spent on him)
But I did go get him some candy and beer and a card cause I felt bad. D4 made him toast for breakfast; it was cute.

I would call her on that despicable behavior--at the least she could have said Happy FD, unless she thinks that you are just an el stinko father and was trying to make a statement.

That is rotten; don't let her get away with it!

Honey