Annette,
Truly that is the hardest part.
I remember when we first started talking I couldn't even say the words make love, let alone sex. It all felt so awkward and as if I was speaking to my grandma!
That first conversation was by FAR the hardest, in terms of getting started and being nervous, etc. After that the ice had been broken and we had something to build on.

I wish you LUCK; I know you will do well. He is intrigued by you so that is a big plus!

One thing I realized is that I have become fused to my kids and my house and my life as a mother lately! It should not feel THAT good to get out of the house for an evening, lol!

Have a good weekend, all....

HP