I am glad to see someone else agree with my idea that LD spouses MAKE their spouses undesireable. Here is the way I see things happening:
1) LD gives crap for desire to HD spouse(and the LD spouse KNOWS this). 2) The HD spouse trys to fix things by "Changing" and jumping through all the hoops set up by the LD. 3) What the LD sees is a spouse with no Spine, someone that has violated their own integrity.
Result is: How can a LD spouse find their HD spouse attractive when the HD spouse will accept crap from them!
