((((((((((( HP))))))))))) OMG... I can relate so much to your post, especially about mourning the loss of your H's desire. Over the weekend I had friends of ours over, married for about 5 yrs and now with 2 small children, and even H had to comment how they have changed as a couple. H is forever saying to me how I must be having a MLC, but is it so wrong to want to recapture desire? ( You don't need to validate here).
The other day we were in bed taking a rest and I asked him to put some lotion on me. Well he did, but he put it on one arm. It was so pathetic that I just had to laugh. J---who prefers laughing to crying
