I sympathize with you...but I know that doesn't help how you are feeling right now. Perhaps it was just one of those weekends....I was promised three separate times that we were going to ML...but it never materialized. I brought that up to my LDH last night (finally), to which he told me we were both too tired this weekend every time he thought of it. I replied "I'm never too tired for that, but the last thing I want is mercy sex out of obligation." I didn't get angry and he didn't get upset with me saying that...I was merely stating a fact. But my emotions were definitely getting the best of me this weekend...there just seems to be something pathetic about sitting in your bubble bath by yourself...crying. Ok, enough of that now...I'm off of my pity party. HP...anytime you need support...I'm going through the same thing you are (minus the pregnancy )