That's a question I have asked myself often...and for me the answer is...No. I need the emotional intimacy that ML brings with it. If I were older (I'm 36) I may be willing to do that...but I just can't see myself being content with a "sexless" marriage for 25+ years as some people on this board have done (kudos to them, you know who you are). Fortunately in my situation...my LDH recognizes he has a problem and wants to work towards a resolution...so there's great hope for my marriage
