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So, Tim, I don't know what the magic bullet was, other than being willing to do a lot of things that I found uncomfortable, while my wife did a lot of things that she found uncomfortable...



Well, NOP, that is pretty much PM in a nutshell. I was going to say it sounds to me like you and your W pretty much did the PM thing without really knowing what to call it. I'm looking forward to as many details as you care to post, because I think they may just be very inspiring to a lot of folks here.

SBH, I'm glad you got scared enough by the possibilities to take action early - I sure wish I had known, 20 years ago, just how long sh!t like this can last - but only if I could ALSO have known how to make it better. Our 25th anniversary is tomorrow, and while I still can't make any guarantees that we'll have a 30th, I'm a lot more optimistic and hopeful about it than I was a few months ago. And by posting that last sentence, you helped more people than you know... that would be a great one to make a sticky (stay at the top of the list)...


TimV2.0

Me: 53
Her: 56
D26 (at home)
S23 (at home)
S18 (at home)

Formerly Tim47...