ShouldBHappy said: ------------------- So, I really pushed myself to communicate and to change more in the past three weeks, as a result of reading what you all are posting. Just wanted to say thanks. Ultimately, you've helped save a relationship, because things are much better for us. -------------------
That is fantastic!
This site has seen some decent successes. I wish that there had been a book like TSSM years ago. I used to pride myself on common sense and logic. It sucks to have missed the ball so badly and for so long in our relationship :-) It chars my pride a bit to get exposed by a book, but I am very glad that Michele wrote it. Her book was the catalyst for change in my relationship.
I post little here but there are many others that chronicle their relationships very well on this site, some daily. As you said, I think that being able to see others successes and failures is of immense value.
All the best! -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
