honeypot said: -------------- Well, it's about time, NOP! I thought I was gonna have to bust YOUR balls to get my hard earned brass pair --------------
Sorry about that. I have been meaning to award you for a while now :-)
There are a couple of people that are close to an award, and there are 2 that I am pulling for ( no pressure, but you know who you are :-) ). There is one in particular that is really close, and one that is coming on strong ( whose name will go unmentioned but he looks a lot like SD).
I will tell you what I get from this this site now that most of my issues are gone. I get to see other people cry, scratch, claw, fume, ponder, complain, whine, give up, then get up and do it again. All with only hope that their relationship will be changed for the better. I have the privilege of watching that progression and seeing the results, from the other end of the process.
I love to see another breakthrough in someone's relationship. I love to occasionally be able to offer some hope or encouragement.
I am very proud of everyone that is trying to fix their relationship, regardless of the actual progress made. Most of all, I am very proud to have known such a fine group of people, albeit anonymously. It is a privilege to know people that are not willing to just toss a relationship in the trash like so much refuse, even if this is the last effort to start recovery. It is an honor to be associated with people that are convinced that a marriage IS worth saving.
Sorry about the preaching :-)
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
