HoneyP said:
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But I could have done something about it and I chose not to and then sat back and griped about how long-suffering I was. YES he should have seen how destructive he was being, but to hold this anger over his head for another four years has got to be the dumbest idea I've ever had.
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HoneyP, it is my great privilege and honor today to bestow upon you, the coveted, Brass Pair award.

Your service to your fellow man by growing a pair and addressing the real issues in your relationship, then doing something about it, sets an exemplary example of "the right stuff". When your relationship was in dire straights, under fire, and in danger of being lost, you dug in, fired straight and didn't give up.

We are all inspired by your actions.

Congratulations!

:-)
-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.