HP,

Thanks for your post. I didn't enjoy it as much as when you talk dirty , but this one was better for me. I also think congratulations are in order for "getting it" after only 4 years. I'm sure those 4 years felt to you like 40, but I could have used some of your wisdom only 4 years into my M (almost 20 years ago).

I think all of those here trying to fix their M by working on themselves should be commended. To us guys, seeing the W doing it is especially gratifying, although it can be frustrating if we compare it to our own M. Perhaps it's the same for the W, but I'm a guy so it's all about me.

Mike - wasted 20 years not standing up for myself and being angry