HP

Awwwwwwww thanks

I try to be cool. My 29yr old son took me out not long ago and his friends didn't believe I was his mother LOL. I don't think I look or act like I'm almost 50 , most people estimate my age at around 40, god I love it.

H has seen me do a few dance moves but I am working on making a really cool dancing costume. I will put all the moves on him then I think sometime this weekend I will visit the department store and look at what is available in swim suits. I am motivated now to loose the extra weight. And you know, it wasn't until I got to the point of "I don't care" that I got really motived to do that. Thats when I started the belly dancing and my attitude seemed to change. I think H sees me taking interest in several things other than just sitting around the house and I invite him to go with me, when appropriate, and if he doesn't I don't fret about it, I just go and have fun. He doesn't seem to mind. I hope he knows that eventually, him not doing things with me will result in my lack of interest in him and the marriage. How are you feeling and doing btw?

Annette - dubbed the cool lady by another cool lady