I'm sorry, Greeneyedlass. I should really be more sensitive to your plight instead of howling in my cube. I've very frustrated with a LDSpouse as well and could tell you dozens of things that would work with me. If I knew the secret of waking everyones libido I'd be very rich indeed.
Do you know why he isn't interested? Could he be saving his energy? Is he afraid of not performing well? Is he on a power trip? Is it religious? I'm sorry I don't recall if you've stated a reason for his reservations.
I think it was a very sweet thing you did for your husband and you'll pay for your good deed by itching later on I understand.
