honeypot:

You offer things to your husband that I can only DREAM of. And his response is just unbelieveable. I would KILL to shvae my wife, but of course it will never happen, she would consider that GROSS. And him offering MERCY sex, I really don't understand this. Are you sure his testosterone is in the proper levels? I was reading where there are 3 forms of testosterone in the male body, some is free and others are not. All of the forms of testosterone must be at the proper level. I have probably said this before, get him checked out. If I were confronted with my wife naked asking to be shaved, I think I would be dead before I hit the floor, my heart just would not be able to take that.

Mercy sex, it sucks for both men and women. It is just as important to men to be seen as attractive as it is for women. What I don't understand is why LD people truly do not understand this concept. I don't understand why they get hung up on the frequency and when to do it, when they need to concentrate on the WHY to do it. These LD spouses seem to concentrate on the mechanics, which effectively ruins the moment.