Hi Honey, I think you are really handling yourself well. It's not easy to put yourself out there and stay positive in the face of a potentially rejecting situation. The reward is that you and H are sharing intimate moments, having dialogue, and are connected. I know it's not exactly what you would like...you'd like to be ravaged by him rather than be told he is doing this for you...but what you have is a committed man who is being honest and trying to please you. This whole low desire thing is so hard to accept and so hard on our sense of attractiveness as a woman. Your H is stepping up to the plate...perhaps this is all he can do right now with his mind so preoccupied, but it wouldn't hurt to let him know that as you head in the final stages of pregnancy a little reassurance/compliments/energy from him goes a long way. J
