Honey, as an HDH, I know EXACTLY what you are saying. While I would LOVE to have a W that offered, it would still take something away from the experience to know that it was offered mostly out of mercy sex. But try to look at the good side. Though the offer to ML may be looking out for you rther than desire couched in politeness, at least he IS thinking of you and your needs. How much better is that than a H/W who simply doesn't care if you're left wanting or not? It may not be perfect, but it's way better than it could be.
