I think it would be a great idea to take a vacation together. A road trip would be even better. I find that I get alot of communicating done on road trips.
Maybe you and your H could agree not to"work" on the M while you are traveling, just enjoy each other's company and the sights? Take the pressure off, and you might be surprised at what you two notice in each other.
I don't know where you live, but 10 days on the road seeing and experiencing things might be nice. Beaches? Camping? Mountains? Dancing? Dining? Ballgames? Concerts? Fairs? Amusement Parks? Zoos? Museums? The possibilities for fun are endless. Just take off together with a general idea about where you are going and play it by ear!
What do you think? I think you get a 2 for 1. You get your time filled so that your mind is occupied, and you may find some nice feelings for your H too.
Certainly, travel is more than the seeing of sights; it is a change that goes on, deep and permanent, in the ideas of living. - Miriam Beard
