That's a very intelligent question, "Which way would you have us sway you." I definitely would not want anyone pushing me towards D, or I would not have come to a DB website! I would not want anyone swaying me towards OM, since he is not a viable option. I guess I want to be swayed towards trying again with my M (which you all have done!) but while also being supported in the place I am in right this minute, which is still limbo. I know that's a fine line to walk, and you guys have done a really good job of trying!

By the way... a CONCERN... I inadvertently signed off with my REAL name in some prior posts... is there any way I can delete those posts from the forum? How long are archived posts kept public?

Thank You-

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