After posting my own story, I then read this post. This is exactly what my wife is wanting. She desires someone who is focused only on her. She wants a great romance again.
Being married for so long, I feel in our own situation, love and sex became expected and neither of us worked on it. Now she has someone showing her interest even though I am deeply in love with her yet.
I wish I had viewed this website before it was too late. I yearn to have an affair with my wife but may never get to again.
For anyone still in a working marriage, take these messages to heart and make your marriage a priority. The hurt and work you have to do if you don't is beyond compare.