On the 4th XH called the house, oldest S answered. They talked for about 15 min. Then he talked to me. I think only because S asked if he wanted to.. We only spoke for a few min.
I don't hear from him again until Friday. He sends me a page: Hello. Sorry to bother you. What is the number to the _________?
I tried to call him a couple of times to give him the information and to just chat, but got his VM.
Later in the day I sent him a text message with the information he wanted and that I had tried to call him. I said the he is never a bother.
He paged me back that he had been in back to back meetings all day.
Later that night, 10:30p, he called me. We talked for about 1/2 hour. Just little stuff, what we were doing on the weekend etc.
Saturday night, well I guess it would have been Sunday morning, he called at 1:30am. I could tell he was driving. He said that a guy he works with was having trouble with his GF and they went out to dinner, and then "people watching". I didn't ask for more details.
As we talked he got home and got ready for bed. This led to full on phone sex.
As things heated up, we were talking about how this would be better in person. He kept asking me to come up on Sunday. I told him I wanted to come up for more than one day. I said lets plan on next weekend. He said lets do both. I don't have the money to do both. Things are getting quite ummmm hot now and he keeps saying "tell me you'll come up tomorrow, tell me tell me. I kept saying I can't, you know I want to. Toward the "end" I said yes that I would come up.
After, he asked if I was coming up. I said, I really want to but I can't.
Then he called me a liar. I said that isn't nice. He said, you lied, said you would come up now your not. We said good night and that was it. No contact yesterday.
WTF?? I don't hear from him for a week, and only in the "heat of the moment" he askes me up; keeps asking and asking and yeah, I DO WANT TO SEE HIM! In the past I would drop everything to go see him. Last time I went up, it was at the last min. We were talking and he says, hey, come up today. I have never said no.
I don't know if we are really going to get together this weekend. I guess I'll just wait and see.
I feel like he is looking for some reason to be able to call me a liar. Don't know. Just seems weird to me.
We did spend over 1 1/2 hours on the phone, so I guess that is a good thing. When he first called he said he was sorry for calling so late, but he just wanted to find out how my conversation with youngest S went. REALLY, that couldn't wait 6 more hours to call on Sunday?
