If that's your logic, hell, I'll MAKE you that crown. Cause it's mine too. Honesty is a biggie for me... because it's a pretty simple choice. And when you have questions about such a basic level of integrity, you don't have to be a rocket scientist-- or a girl magician-- to wonder how much precious time you wish to spend.
As for the job, the impact is fairly serious and it's adding some stress to my life, but it's also a jumpstart for things I want and need to do.
As for the sunny days, yes, I am having one right as we speak!! Overall... to quote James Brown: I feel good!
Think I'm going to be doing the hiatus thing again. The usual suspects and other folks with the proper security credentials can feel free to email me at sg01005@yahoo.com.
Big hugs to everyone!! What on Earth would I do without my DB pals... certainly I'd be in a different place entirely. Cheers!
Quote: As for the sunny days, yes, I am having one right as we speak!! Overall... to quote James Brown: I feel good!
But didn't he write that in the back of a jail cell??? Sad attempt at a joke, i know.
I am sorry to hear about the job sitch, but if its any consolation, other than the concerns for the job, your sounding wonder FULL lately. Now, hopefully its not in the local pokey!
Take care wonder and hope to hear from you after your hiatus.
All smiles, no frowns.........
Triple J
Things were different then. All is different now. I tried to explain, somehow..........
Eddie Vedder (Pearl Jam)
I just wanted to stop in and reiterate that, having met Wonder in person, I am now convinced (as I suspected) that her H is crazy to leave such a warm, intelligent, giving, interesting, knockout gorgeous woman. He should be falling down on his knees thanking the gods that he has her in his life....which he may not for too much longer. I mean, the man is struggling with the jigsaw puzzle of his life & so deserves compassion, but, yeesh, he must start behaving like more of a friend if he is to have the gift of her friendship. She has altogether too much on the ball (and from the Universe) to wait around too long.
I know you're taking a break from the boards, but just wanted to stop by and send some hugs, and hope that all is going well in both the career and personal side of things. I CAN'T WAIT till you come to the Bay Area for your visit! {{{{{{{{{{{Wonder}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Since I was told earlier by our BB buddy (Triple J) that I was cruel for resurrecting his thread, I figured I better be an equal opportunity resurrecter and bring yours back to life.
Just stopping in to say hello and let you know that you've been on my mind. I will send you an e-mail shortly... you'd think that I would have been doing that instead of posting all over hell's half acre here.
Okay, now to resurrect someone else's dying thread...
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Wow. I feel pretty humble posting here again after that introduction, Azure. Are you sure that was me, lol?
Thanks. I'm blushing.
Betsey, nice try. But I agree with Triple J on this one. Not so sure this thread is coming back... can't say I have lots to report. Perhaps I'll start a new one in your neighborhood at some point. Hopeful is how I feel... about my present and future, even if I am on the verge of sickness after spending a full day hauling heavy pumpkins in the cold October rain.
Update on my sitch is the same as it was. Had a few brief emails with the WAH this week and a few weeks back-- business-like things. He ends them these days with a little . Odd for someone who never did tell me to my face why it is he filed for divorce. Or who heard from me this late summer about why it is I don't wish to be friends in his present circumstance and no longer have faith based on his actions that I can trust him.
My divorce paperwork is in process and heading toward a final stretch. That's about it.
Meanwhile, I am making my own life pretty good. One or two steps at a time.
But my back is sure sore from those pumpkins!
Take care everyone and my most humble thanks for checking in on me. I really appreciate that.
Betsey 
. Odd for someone who never did tell me to my face why it is he filed for divorce. Or who heard from me this late summer about why it is I don't wish to be friends in his present circumstance and no longer have faith based on his actions that I can trust him.