Well, Betsey, I am quite sure that particular definition would churn those rumor mills, LOL! Snow? In August? Surely that's a bad rumor too... we've had 3 whole days of sun... it feels almost like... summer!

Seattle, let's get your dictionary out... how DOES one define this offering? I agree it's not what I consider friendship either. And yeah, I'm taking good care these days! Life is good, as Sun says.

Sun, will we ever know what they're thinking? My H often says he wishes I did know... wishes I was in his head, wishes I understood things he "can't say". So I am guessing it's not looking good for those answers to be revealed anytime soon. For a while, he was so forthcoming ,too. Then WHAM... back to the bomb-time rhetoric he'd been undoing for well over a year... it's his journey. I get that much.

Take care everyone! I'm going home early!
wonder