Wonder ~
You truly sound great and I am so happy for you!! Sounds like your H and mine are cut from the same mold....

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I'm really not at all interested in pretending none of this ever happened or even that it was justified and simply acting like a couple of old friends who just haven't seen each other in a while.



Good point....I guess this is why I have become somewhat obsessed with closure over the past week. I like things out in the open and not swept "under the rug".

Do you think we will ever find out what they are /were truly thinking?? And if we do...will it matter?!


Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)