Quote: I KNOW he is still with her since I have contact with his brother and his wife ... They are mortified by his "new life" with her and that it is "all about him" these days.
Hey, I could have written that!
I know my H has lots of conflicting emotions... some of them he has shared recently.
I also know that his "dishonesty" in the form of saying things that never occurred or avoiding big pieces of the truth is really just him trying to justify his behavior--it's about him wanting to be seen a certain way, something we've discussed many times before now.
I just don't want those kind of interactions anymore.
I'm really not at all interested in pretending none of this ever happened or even that it was justified and simply acting like a couple of old friends who just haven't seen each other in a while.
That's too bizarre for me and I don't think it's healthy for either of us to do that. I've been down that road already.
The path I am on now is mine... wherever it leads.
