Wonder ~
WOW!!!!!!!!! You sound terrific.

I am so happy for you...welcome to my world...it is a nice place, isn't it?? I love the yoga, the dates, the friends and family and especially the coconut baths....you GO girl!!!!!!!!!!

My new mantra this summer has become..."Life is Good"....I really find myself saying that to myself many times a day!!

I could have written this myself........
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H is ensconced where I left him... in his rented house with OW. He wants to be my friend. He misses my friendship. He's suggested we meet to talk in person, has shared selected pieces of his life with me, is even acting on occasion like a man I actually recognize... yet he talks to me as if OW is imaginary-- talks around her as if he lives alone, was dishonest and avoidant in our discussions about settlement. He doesn't act like a friend.



Isn't it amazing that they act like the GF doesn't exist?? My ex does the same thing--it is actually laughable!! I KNOW he is still with her (although they don't live together....) since I have contact with his brother and his wife and they tell me more stories than I need to hear about him. They are mortified by his "new life" with her and that it is "all about him" these days. Sounds like yours and mine are in the same place...

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Interesting that the email version of the blank stare or walking away mid-conversation doesn't bother me anymore.


Isn't this the best part?? they can no longer get to us like they used to. It feels SO good!!!

Dance your way into a fun weekend Wonder, and please keep in touch. I have missed you!


Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)