Wonder ~ Dancing and playing with fire??! You go girl!!!!
No seriously...so far everything for me with the Separation, D,etc. seems to have happened when I was ready and not a second before. I guess I would call it fate or good karma.
I kind of feel that same way about dating...when the time comes I will know it and it won't happen a second sooner for me.
BTW, I think I am close to being ready!!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)