Quote: As far as sex.........all I can say is....Until "Mr Right Now" comes along.......THANK goodness for batteries!!!!!!!! LOL!
Ha! Couldn't have said it better myself, Sun and Azure!!!!
The settlement thing is not bothering me much-- we're not "negotiating" anything, more like he's doing the necessary paperwork to remove this accessory (me) from his life. (we've agreed to what we were going to do all along, though I do kind of wonder now whether what he will stick to that or if he will suddenly go back on his word. I'll see soon enough.).
I was the one who brought up the settlement, actually, because there'd been no word and it might impact timing of things I might wish to do.
We've been having a bit of an open email discussion, though he seems to be doing his best to shut himself down from me while still maintaining some level of conversation. Kind of sad.
I guess I am DBing in terms of handling the conversation much more maturely and confidently-- and less much reactively-- than I might have before. But I am a more mature and confident and less reactive person now. Being my changes and all that. I am also being firm and open about what my boundaries are.
This comment he made-- in particular-- was interesting to me (in response to what I said in my earlier post):
I guess I can understand why you might not trust me entirely. There isn’t a lot I can do about that. That choice is up to you...
He can't actually believe that, can he? That he has no role in whether he acts trustworthy? Really? Anyone who follows this thread knows I have extended my trust to him again and again... he knows it too.