Hey Wonder! Don't those horoscopes just drive you nuts??!
You got excellent advice from Seattle. You are in that settlement stage where you don't know if H is doing something to gain financially or because it is an emotional response. I've been there and it sucks.
All I can say is, DBing got me more out of my settlement than I expected 'cause H saw me as a "good guy".... You know...."you catch more flies with honey...."
I know what you mean about noticing guys. I have been too . I think that sign is back up on my back...
I have alot of friends that are married mommies too. I have found that I have become their "escape" from the family... They call and say, "do you want to go for a drink?"!! LOL!
Enjoy the rest of the weekend!!!!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)