Well as most of you know I am the HD partner in my marriage. I was wondering if any of the other HD partners here tend to start losing their desire when the emotional part of the realtionship seems to be getting bad? I have started seeing a side of my H that I did not see the first 2 years we were together. That is his temper actually he didn't even have one.. And in the past year it has esculated and seems to be getting worse and worse. To the point where it brings up old feelings for me that I had in my first (absive) marriage. And I am finding even when I had been in the mood all day he starts showing his temper and talk about turning down the heat. My desire just disappears.. And sometimes the desire is there but I don't have any desire to be with him I am just horny. Does anyone know what I am talking about or experienced anything similar?