Wiley, Thanks for your continued support.
One would think I would not have to remind him of how the present situation bothers me and it would be relatively simple to take her off the mortgage and get her out of our lives for once and for all. Afterall, he has asked my opinion and my feelings on refinancing the house in our name and I told him that would be fine. Not that I want to live there, nor will I be willing to live there for a long period of time I am more than willing to refinance, fix up and sell...
That way everyone wins. LOL

On the other point, Xh has been very different (in a good way) to our situation since I let my feelings out... He has also been more aggressive on the present situation. Granted he has not come up with a definate plan of action but its a start!! Yippe


Halo Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.