It's been a while since my last post. Time for an update!
Things with XH and I are still a roller-coaster. Our R is progressing very well it's just Xow is still trying to screw up as much as she possibly can (she really enjoys messing with his head). I swear if I hear about her plans to move and leave him with the house again I am going to scream then I am going to say that I wish she would just do it and quit talking about it. Every one of our plans have fallen to the wayside due to the games she insists on playing. Is she just contacting him for randome acts because she has no life or is that she wants to see me pull my hair out? I really had all the more I could take yesterday, I kind of got emotional and told XH that he was acting selfish expecting me to put off all our plans for a "what might happen" situation. I basicially told him that if he wants the house he needs to refinance it and get it out of her name, that it is obviously upto him to get anything done about that situation. I also went on to complain about the way he has talked to me for the last couple of days, I explained to him that I treat him with respect and I expect the same. I do not want him to kiss my behind but a R is a give and take and I expect certain things as he does.
I know this is all wrong according to the DB handbook but it felt really good to finally say what I have been feeling, it felt wonderful to not be so passive aggressive for a change. So far things are working out to my advantage from our little talk last night.
I hope all of you are well.
Halo
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.
