Slowly and Suzyblue, thanks for checking in on me.


Well gang things have been wonderful in Halo's world. Xh and I are taking the time to get to know each other, we have a lot of fun together and have come a long way in just a few short months.

Last Friday we both took a day of vacation to spend quality time together and to get some things taken care of. Friday we also went to a wedding shower, the shower was for a couple of his old neighbors which means all of his old neighbors were there. I don't know if any of you remember but his XOw lives in "their" house and these people are her neighbors.
The topic of most conversations were of how much they disliked XOw. They all wanted to know when "we" were going to move into that house, blah blah blah. I figured it would make me uncomfortable to be around "their" friends but it did not. Actually I felt a little bad for her.
All evening I was introduced as "his wife", it was a great feeling. I hit it off with everyone and we received several other invitations to do more with these people.
Saturday we went to a bar on the lake to see the band we follow, some of his family and friends joined us and we had another wonderful evening.
Sunday we lounged around the apartment and listened to the rain. I ran out to get take out, he calls when I am out and asks me to pick up a listing of rental properties. We (ok really he has been) have been talking about living together off an on for the last few months. He has brought up this topic more and more over the last few weeks, now he made the first move. Looking for an apartment is confusing and exhausting. I finally called an rental property locator to do the work for us. She will narrow down our search so all we will have to do is go look at the select few and figure out which one we like better.

Xh has opened up so much to me, The ILY's are more frequent, and he tells me how much I mean to him and how happy he is, how he has to hear my voice before bed and shortly after he rises on night we do not stay together.

My friends here at work have seen the changes in me and are so happy for us. One of my closest friends told me that "we" were an inspiration to him. He is going to work on his-self, because he sees this is the start of a happy healthy life.
Going to continue to kick back, enjoy the sun, and tropical drinks!

Lots of love,

Halo Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.