Turning a Fragile R into a Strong M-

[mylittlehalo]

slowly, thanks for checking on me and you are right the dips are not so bad now a days.

Randy, I am so glad you took the time to be more observent and find me. LOL

It sound like your H is own his way to committing fully to your M.

You really think so?

I too have heard this...

I read somewhere that time for the WAS pasing much faster.

As a matter of fact my mother (which everyone knows we are very close) told me to act like my H was dead when we first S. She told me that it is easier to deal with a spouse passing than it is dealing with a D. I dont know how much truth there is in that but once I thought of my H's absence being a mandatory thing vs a voluntary thing it did make life a bit easier.

you asked what the longest time xH and I went w/o communication... Okay which time? LOL
About 3 months after our S, we went from July to October w/o contact, we talked only once on his Bday. Then we went from October to December w/o contact, we talked on my Bday. But the longest time ever was after our D was final. We went from May to August w/o contact, he contacted me only because of a judgement that was awarded to me in our D. Trust me this was the only reason he contacted me, I believe the Ow (now XOw) had brain washed him, but once he saw me to give me my money he could not get enough, We talked spratically for the next year + then we are where we are now.

You are nine weeks, I know it feels like a life time but you have to stay strong. We are here for ya!


Journaling:
Today was a great day, Xh called me a couple of times while I was at work, just fun, light chit-chat.
Everytime we talk HE makes comments of how he cannot wait until "we" sleep together every night, until "he" can come home to "ME" every night, how he is looking forward to it being "our" bills, "our" money, "our" life together. What a great day.

OMG- xH called this evening when I was at the grocery store and told me that XOw Quit her job today. If it is not one thing is it another. He doesn't sound worried about it so I guess I am not worried either.

Thanks to all for standing behind me and lifting me when I need it.
Hugs and prayers to all.