Got locked out of my old thread so here is my new one.
My origial thread in Newcomers is here First thread
My thread in Piecing is here Second thread

It's a lot to read so here is a summary...
Xh and I married in 1997, D final 2002 after 18 month separation. Tried several times to reconcile with no avail. Xh bought a house with Ow (now XOw) and I moved on with my life. Xh and I talked spratically over the last couple of years, late 2003 Xh tells me that he loves me, always has and always will, he also told me that he was scared he would loose me if he hadn't already. He said he wanted to come back home.
We have been OFFICIALLY back together for the last few months, The roller-coaster ride we are on has been very difficult as of late. Xh and Xow are trying to sell their house, tons of problems have arrised with that sitch. A couple of weeks ago Xh told me that he needed time to figure out who he is. I completely understand this and have been very supportive. Times have been difficult but I still believe there is a loving strong R some where beyond all these problems.

A couple of good things have come out of this sitch. Xh and I are communicating like we never have before, I find it easier and easier to talk to him about life, work, and some R (but not too deep R talk). I also know he feels our communication skills have completely turned around from where they ever have been. Xh also talks and shares very intimate feelings with me which I love. Every time we talk he tells me how good it feels to be able to talk to me, We have a lot of fun and laugh a lot when we talk on the phone. Xh and I have so much fun when we spend time together regardless of if we are having dinner, watching our oldest nephew at the pool, going to the casino, going to family functions and parties, or simply hanging around the house doing nothing. And most importantly we have an incredible sex life. When we ML it feels like we are so close and almost inseparable. But sometimes I feel this is the closest we will ever be.

Halo Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.