(((((((((((Azure)))))))))))))) I am so sorry to read about BIL. This will be a terrible time for H, and will be your turn to give back to him. Men seem to go inside themselves and not want to talk. Try and be there, even when he doesn't think that he needs it. I am grateful that their waiting is over for him and his family. What that must have been like. Pure hell, not knowing, but fearing the worst.
I am sending you knowledge to know what to do, strength to be able to hold up H, and PMA, because he is going to need it from you. I am also sending my prayers that you will be able to focus, and that you will not be reminded of F funeral. (It will be tough to go to one so soon, if you choose to be there.) I'm sorry to read about this Azure. Please know that you are in my thoughts. Hugs to you, Rae Jean P.S. Happy 4th to you? Try and find some joy today. LOL