Excellent positives to focus on, m'dear! Hope you have fun at one or both parties.
I would be willing to bet H just really needs some time on his own to process this harrowing situation. And also that he has got his head on straight enough to really appreciate how you have been there when he's needed that. It must be difficult wondering what's happening on your part when you're not talking to him, though.
You have a lot on your emotional plate right now, girl. Time to be there for yourself, too.
My garden is weedy. Maybe I will take inspiration from you and go do some work tomorrow! I spent my day catching up with friends and attending a 90th birthday party for a family friend-- now that put some things in perspective for me!
