Quote: It’s interesting, though, to keep in mind what I read recently in the Harriet Lerner book, Fear and Other Uninvited Guests -- something to the effect that when you find yourself “overfocusing” on someone else, it’s a sign of your own anxiety. (She doesn’t say this judgmentally).
I really needed to hear this, Azure. Thank you so much. Hope you don't mind: I'm going to post this blurb on my thread so I have it to remind me.
NSN My current thread LUVR ... Listen, Understand, Validate, and Respond
