I'm not sure if I've ever posted to you before but I've been reading some of your thread and we have a common friend in Wonder. Welcome to Piecing and like UD I've always thought you belonged here too. Like you, many of us are piecing somthing together, it just might be ourselves.
Your H's letter struck home with me because I recieved a similar letter before. The noncommunication sucks and we all deserve some clarity and to be able to talk it out. Unfortunately my reaction was similar to what I believe yours was, I was offended and hurt and couldn't talk it out.
That was the past. Although I feel I have grown, I sometimes slip into those old reactionary modes when my emotions if unbridled could really cause havoc.
Guilt, fear, whatever their emotions are they are avoiding facing them and nothing I have done has helped faciliated the confrontation within themselves I had been trying for. I can't do or say anything that has helped, so instead I'm letting go. That doesn't mean no contact (although much less) and it does mean I am cordial, even nice at times, and certainly interesting and having my own life (this is for my health, the gravy is telling WAW about it).
I also recieved the want you as friends and in my life line. I have a completely different feeling on this one. Everyone is different and each sitc is different too. Do what feels best for you.
Welcome again and best of luck.
I think Wonder was flying to some remote Mayan village, maybe she met some dark skinned muscle bulging native?
